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My usual "go to sleep" tactic is thinking about something interesting but unstressful, e.g
"What would I do first if I won the lottery?", "what tracks would I pick for desert island discs?", "can I think of perfectly normal backgrounds for RPG characters (rather than the cliche traumatic ones like [bad force] murdered my village and I want revenge!)"

Recently I was thinking about my favourite fantasy and SF authors and noticed a funny disparity - see below.
The lists )
My fantasy list is pretty gender balanced. My sci-fi list... is not. I think a lot of it comes from sub-genre preferences: I'm mostly into military SF which I can imagine being less common for female SF authors. ("Some Desperate Glory" by Emily Tesh was one of my favourite books last year but I won't put her into the favourite author list while I've only read one book!)

Interested to hear if other people have similar differences between genres or if it's just me!

Parenting

Apr. 19th, 2020 02:32 pm
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Hello,

Later than advertised, some thoughts about parenting. Appropriately enough, I'm starting this while sitting on the steps at half five waiting to see if Arjun is awake for the day now or just taking a quick break from sleep.

In general, I was surprised by how massive the step up to two kids was. Logically you'd think it would be smaller than 0 to 1, but if so that's hard to remember given that 0 was a long time ago! Basically we'd gotten to a point where we were feeling really confident with Jovan, and suddenly we were faced with how to do all of that and deal with a baby as well.

I've been on shared parental leave since 1 April. With lockdown, that's been a bit more intense than I bargained for - I'd been expecting to have Jovan in nursery three days a week, and to have some places to go outside the house! Fortunately Southwark has kept the parks open. Running Jovan around and giving Arjun some fresh air are both key to a good day, and we don't have a garden so much as a ground-level balcony with extra pruning. Shreena has been amazing about building some breaks into her (very busy) new job so that she can help with the kids for a bit of a break during the day.

Arjun is delightful- one of the things that has been great about the last few weeks has been how fast he's warmed up to me. Shreena is still definitely the center of his universe, but I feel like I've moved several galaxies in towards the centre with the parental leave.

At the moment, Arjun is 9 months old. He's almost walking, but hasn't really bothered with crawling. He is a total force for chaos, charging around the house holding on to our hands looking for things he can knock over or bang with a stick. He's delightful! He thinks Jovan is the funniest person in the world, but still stands his ground when (e.g.) Jovan tries to take a toy he's playing with.

Jovan has overall been really good with Arjun, but is definitely jealous of time that Shreena or I spend with Arjun. I'm hoping that will improve when Arjun is walking completely on his own and they can play together more actively!
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Hello,

Long time no post - apologies! I'm hoping to be able to give a career update in the next month or so, and I should also post some thoughts about parenting two at some point. But the kids had me up at 5 today so I'm out of brainpower, and what you're getting is some authors I've really enjoyed on Kindle.

Most of these I've picked up through the Amazon Daily Deal (as I'm willing to hazard 99p on a lot), but I've subsequently bought basically everything they had on sale so I wanted to flag them for others who might be interested.

Drew Hayes

I came to Drew Hayes' work through the Spells, Swords and Stealth series, which focuses on what happens when 4 non-player characters in a fairly typical tabletop RPG (i.e. it's totally meant to be some edition of Dungeons and Dragons!). That summary could have been written to get me to buy a book, and it worked, but it was carried through with a lot of style and polish. In my opinion the characterisation is ok but not amazing (in particular, Eric and Gromph are a bit elusive - Thistle is clearly the POV character and gets most of the development) but the world-building really shines and the party banter is excellent.

Based on how much I enjoyed those, I also picked up his Super-Powered and Fred the Vampire Accountant series. Of the two, I think the former is better but both are definitely worth reading. It's particularly impressive that he's worked out the details of three worlds that work very differently but hang together well. The Vampire Accountant books score slightly less well for me because character development is very slow - the later books provide enough detail on earlier events to persuade me that the author had thought through the characters at least sub-consciously, but what we see in the first couple of books is quite a lot of people becoming massively loyal friends and allies to Fred without obvious justification.

T. Kingfisher aka Ursula Vernon

I got into this through Swordheart, which slightly reminds me of Sense and Sensibility crossed with The Hobbit - it's refreshing to have a thirty-something woman who's better at running a house than running people through as our heroine, and it was interesting to get the cross-over between the very Regency plot about inheritance and the rest of the novel's fantasy elements.

I enjoyed it so much that I then read The Clockwork Boys, The Wonder Engine and Minor Mage. all of which I enjoyed immensely. While the world-building is very good, I think the strength here is primarily the banter. In the final case, it's mostly with a talking armadillo!

I think in both cases I enjoyed the way that they took a slightly sideways look at fantasy. T. Kingfisher in particular reminds me of Tooth and Claw by Jo Walton.
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Hello all,

Our trip to India (which was amazing! Check out Shreena's pictures on Facebook) gave me lots of time to read things, so I have a recommendation and a WTF to share with you.

Recommended: The Red Knight by Miles Cameron )

WTF? Triplanetary, by E. E. Doc Smith )
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I just finished reading The Deed of Paksenarrion, by Elizabeth Moon. I picked it up because a number of you have said good things about it over the years, and I enjoyed Sassinak when I read it as a teenager.

Beware - contains spoilers for the whole trilogy )

ETA - I see there are a number of prequels and sequels in the same world. Are they any good? I saw some in the library today, but decided to hold off in case they were just an attempt to milk the success of the first trilogy.
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Does anyone have a recommendation for a book to teach a beginner bridge? I'm looking for a leaving gift for one of my colleagues, and she's recently been keen to learn bridge.

Thank you!
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A few thoughts on politics. They were prompted by some coverage of Ed Miliband's speech today but it's not particularly partisan, as I think all political parties share this idea rhetorically. How committed they are to it in practice is debatable!

Thoughts about globalization and the British Promise )

So the somewhat depressing conclusion is that it seems to me that we ought to be preparing for a few decades of steady or declining real wages. But I'm not an economist, so I might well be wrong - please do point out where! I also have a feeling that I ought to know more about economics than I do. Almost everything I know about economics comes from reading the newspapers and The Wealth of Nations as a teenager, so if there are any particularly good books I should read I'd welcome suggestions there too.
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I just finished reading The Court of the Air, by Stephen Hunt. (Amazon link)

I quite enjoyed it - the world was fun and the plot had some pleasant surprises. The supporting characters were entertaining, but I will freely admit that the main characters did not have a great deal of detail.

Leif Erik on Good Read didn't like it - and thank God he didn't. I've just laughed out loud at the opening line of his review:

Reads like a commission Charles Dickens and Jules Verne accepted after the Communards killed everyone they loved. Plus Aztec monsters.
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[livejournal.com profile] shreena and I are in the process of trying to declutter - this has led me to discover two Wii games which I bought for my brother last Christmas before discovering that he actually has an X-Box 360 and not a Wii at all (oops!)

I probably should have returned them, but I was busy and they were from Amazon (so returning would be a hassle), so I failed. This leaves me with two Wii games which I can't do anything with. Before they go to a charity shop, I thought I'd offer them up to you nice people. So, would anyone like either:
- No More Heroes
or
- NHL 2k9 (i.e. ice hockey)?

Reply by comment. Public entry, so feel free to point other friendly people here if they're likely to want one or both. Getting to a post office is a bit of a hassle for me during the week, so I'll take requests from people who can pick them up from us in London over those who'd need them shipped. Reply by comment, please.
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The RSC was on the Today programme yesterday, lamenting the lack of mathematical rigour (and indeed science, they claim) in modern science exams. Reading a bit more about that story let me to this story, about a study the RSC ran last year setting modern pupils questions from a variety of eras. They did not do well - an average of 25%.
Cut for geeky units analysis and pedagogy )
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In other news, [livejournal.com profile] shreena is awesomely fantastic and I like her lots and lots.
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From the mathematics portion of the test specification for Northern Ireland's transfer tests (taken by 11 year olds before going to secondary school):

Pupils should have opportunities to interpret tables and lists used in everyday life, for example, those found in a catalogue or road safety accident report (Emphasis mine).

Life must be very different for 11 year olds in Northern Ireland.
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The Economist has a tangential discussion on the government's failure to encourage people on to public transport this week, intended as a cautionary tale lest anyone get too excited by proposals to write carbon emission targets into law. This includes a graph of the cost of various forms of land transport which suggests that driving is the only form of transport which has gotten cheaper since 1980. I was surprised by this and did some more digging which I will discuss under a cut. )
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Much to [livejournal.com profile] shreena's delight, I'm between jobs at the moment - my job at NFER finished a week ago and the Civil Service are looking for a job for me. (At least all the relevant paperwork and checks have now been completed!) Because I'm bored, I've been working my way through Delia's vegetarian collection (on loan from the library).

I may well buy the book, but just in case I don't - does anyone know whether the recipes featured on Delia online change? At the moment all of the recipes I'm most keen on are on the website, but if they're likely to disappear without warning then I should make copies of them before we return the book to the library.
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... for those of us who spent most of our adolescence in the SF/Fantasy section at the library. Mightygodking with new, more accurate titles for popular books. My personal highlight: 'Mary Sue Gets a Dragon', by Anne McCaffrey.

Part One

Part Two

Final Part
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I have big feet (size 12 wide). Do you know what men with big feet have? Serious issues finding shoes. I also seem to wear out my shoes at a slightly distressing rate - shoes that I wear frequently rarely last more than 6 months before the soles are worn through. Unfortunately, very few high street shoe stores seem to sell shoes that can be resoled, so each time it happens it requires further shoe shopping.

Until recently, I have been a poor student and thus did most of my shoe shopping at Brantano. I do not doubt that buying cheap shoes is reason number one for the short life of my shoes, but high street shops very rarely stock shoes that will fit me and even more rarely do so with any kind of shoe except boring black leather ones to be worn to the office.

My shoes are yet again wearing out, but this time I am gainfully employed and thus have some money! So I'm appealing to the wisdom of LiveJournal. Where can I find good quality, casual shoes that will fit me and can be resoled? I'm currently based in Slough, so can relatively easily get to London, Reading or Oxford - sources further afield will be considered based on the enthusiasm of their advocates. Please help!
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'Nemesis' is a word that should probably be avoided in questions aimed at 10 year olds. That is all.
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[livejournal.com profile] shreena and I were talking about books over the weekend, and the topic of "books that made you go "Whoa! That was great". Tangentially to this discussion we were talking about genres, and wondering about how favorite books fall among genres, so I decided to sit down and write out my favorite books and which (approximate!) genres they fall into. I'm posting them here to satisfy your curiousity and possibly attract some recommendations! So, Ben's favorite books:

Favorite book lists below )
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I just finished Guy Gavriel Kay's Tigana. It was quite a fun book, and I enjoyed it - however, I found myself irritated by two facets of the narrative. I'm going to discuss them under a cut, to spare anyone who doesn't want to be spoiled about the novel.

Here be spoilers )
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I am currently waiting (and will possibly be waiting for some months) for the various bits of paperwork associated with new!shiny!job to be completed. Thesis, on the other hand, is looking quite hopeful: I'm optimistic about getting a final draft to my supervisor by the end of next week and hopefully submitting shortly thereafter.

So I'm about to have an excess of free time and a shortage of money, so the natural solution seems to be temping. Has anyone got any recommendations for temp agencies in London/Slough/Reading? Or questions I should think about before applying to them? Something that took advantage of a scientific background would clearly be ideal, but to be honest I'm just looking for something marginally better paid than pulling pints at Wetherspoons!
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